By Adeyemi Adekunle
Abuja, Nigeria
At her one-year memorial service in Abuja, Professor Stella Effah Attoe-Oyedokun, the former National Women Leader of Nigeria’s Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), was remembered as a towering figure whose legacy exemplified a life driven by purpose.
Right Reverend Bassey Unoh of the Presbyterian Church of Nigeria, who officiated at the service, characterized her as an “amazing Amazon” whose life and work impacted many, transcending political, academic, and personal boundaries. This commemoration was not only a celebration of her accomplishments but also a testament to the moral and spiritual lessons she imparted.
In his sermon, Reverend Unoh focused on the theme “Hope in the Face of Death,” drawing on 1 Thessalonians 4:13-16. He reminded the congregation of the Christian perspective on death—not as a final end but as a transition for those who have lived lives of purpose and faith.
Reverend Unoh explained the life Professor Attoe-Oyedokun led was a testimony that true fulfillment comes not from the length of one’s days but from their impact. Her life was a beacon of hope, leaving a legacy that serves as a source of comfort to her family and friends. According to Unoh, “During her lifetime, Professor Stella was not self-centered. No wonder she affected her generation positively, making lasting impacts in the lives of many.”
This reflection was especially poignant in light of Professor Attoe-Oyedokun’s career, which was marked by accomplishments that extended well beyond her immediate professional circles. As a prominent figure in Nigerian academia, Professor Attoe-Oyedokun contributed to advancing educational standards in the country, particularly in her field of expertise. Her role as an educator emphasized intellectual curiosity and moral grounding, impacting many of her students and colleagues.
In her position as the PDP’s National Women Leader, she championed women’s rights, advocating for increased representation and empowerment. Her role in politics was underscored by a commitment to equity, particularly for marginalized groups within Nigeria, and her leadership has had a lasting influence on the structure and policy direction of the PDP.
The memorial service was attended by family, friends, and members of the Gwarinpa Parish from the Presbyterian Church’s Open Heavens congregation, symbolizing the breadth of her influence across various communities. It was held at the family’s Kado Estate residence, where an atmosphere of reflection and gratitude filled the room as ministers of the Gospel led songs, prayers, and exhortations in her honor.
Her eldest son, Oyube David Attoe, spoke on behalf of the family, sharing the profound grief they felt since her passing. He described October 29, 2023, the day of her death, as “the saddest day” of his life, yet he expressed comfort in the legacy she left behind. “The life she lived is our solace,” he said, highlighting her dedication to both their academic and moral upbringing. Oyube emphasized how his mother balanced her duties, nurturing her family’s growth despite the demands of her public roles.
Chief Shuaib Afolabi Oyedokun, Professor Attoe-Oyedokun’s husband, gave a heartfelt vote of thanks that highlighted the harmony and mutual respect in their interfaith marriage, a partnership that spanned decades. While he is Muslim and she was Christian, Chief Oyedokun noted that these differences did not divide them but, in fact, helped them to “live a successful life together.” Their marriage, he said, was a testament to the power of love and understanding.
His appreciation of the Presbyterian Church for its undiluted doctrine underscored the impact her faith had on their family dynamics. This mutual respect extended beyond personal belief systems to their professional lives, where each of them upheld values of service and community that are deeply rooted in both their faiths.
The messages shared at the service reveal a compelling narrative of a woman who dedicated her life to serving others, a commitment that resonated across her roles as a mother, wife, educator, and political leader. Professor Attoe-Oyedokun’s legacy speaks to the profound impact one individual can have when driven by a sense of purpose and faith.
In a time when political figures are often criticized for self-interest, her life remains an example of integrity, service, and the value of working for the greater good.
The significance of such a legacy cannot be overstated, especially within the context of Nigerian society, where challenges such as corruption and inequality persist. Professor Attoe-Oyedokun’s work, particularly in advocating for women’s rights and education, resonates with ongoing efforts to empower future generations and promote equal representation. By focusing on the empowerment of marginalized voices, she embodied the spirit of a reformer, seeking to bridge social divides and create a more inclusive society.
As her family continues to navigate life without her, they are guided by her values and principles, inspired to carry forward her commitment to service and community. Reverend Unoh’s sermon reinforced this call to action, urging her children to “continue where their mother stopped the good works.”
This message underscores the continuity of her legacy, passed down through her family and the countless individuals she influenced throughout her life.
Professor Stella Effah Attoe-Oyedokun’s life exemplifies the philosophy that true purpose lies in service to others, a message that continues to inspire and uplift. Her story serves as a reminder that the value of life is measured not in years but in the lasting contributions one makes to humanity.
Her impact, much like her memory, endures—a legacy of faith, resilience, and dedication that will remain a guiding light for future generations.
